I Fell in “Like” with My Primary Lover

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I am not supposed to though, being ENM. Omg, all the rules I had about “catching” feelings for any of my lovers was strictly prohibited by my rules with all of them in the past. It doesn’t make sense that when I met the man who wanted to be my Primary lover, who got top billing, unlimited access to me, and gets to go bareback only, I started “feeling”.

Our relationship is “complicated” to…

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Jezebel is a psychotherapist who lives and works passionately. Life is a journey worth sharing our musings for others to enjoy.

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