There comes at time in a newly divorced woman’s life when she evaluates the next phase of her life. She thinks of how her kids have grown, and what she is going to do in her career over the next few years. The next important factor she considers, is who she is sexually. In my case, I discovered over the years I was married to a vanilla heterosexual man of 32 years, that I was attracted to women; any size, shape, or color. I think there is beauty in all…