Being a mental health clinician during the daytime affords me the opportunity to gather much data about other’s relationships. I work with couples and individuals alike, a lot having to do about communication. We all have our preferences about the way someone expresses their emotions and thoughts towards us. We…

There comes at time in a newly divorced woman’s life when she evaluates the next phase of her life. She thinks of how her kids have grown, and what she is going to do in her career over the next few years. The next important factor she considers, is who…

My suicide anniversary You know me as sexual Jezebel! But I have a checkered past over the past year! Yes, I am reaping the benefits of writing for Medium and honing my craft as a newbie in this forum, but I was in a very dark place a year ago! …

Oh, but what he did to me….ahh! Yes, I know this title is not sexy for me. However, the story that enfolds will titillate your loins I hope…well, it does mine! It begins in February 2020 when a stately gentleman swiped, right/left, or whatever on my profile and our friendship…

My heart goes out to you! I feel particularly sad when the women sex writers on Medium I covet everything they write as gospel, are hurting! I feel like I have no direction when they are unsure of themselves! Now who can I get my hope, encouragement and sass from?? …

Again! Ugh! Masturbating alone on Friday Night wishing to be with a lover! Here, a bunch of us, I am sure, feel this same way on a Friday night! It is the most hated night of the week for me! Why? Date night for most couples that is why! Because…

As I have said many times before, my lifestyle is not easy! It’s like a freaking roller coaster much of the time! You cannot show real feelings, because partners will get skeezed out, especially if you are following the usual rules of engagement of ethical non-monogamy! I have a…

I, like all women wonder when it comes to that crucial point in sex, when your partner slowly descends down your belly and spreads your thighs…oh God, is he or her going to like your odor and taste. You know what I mean, your vagina smell and fluids! This isn’t…

It’s mine though! I have decided that I want to try new things sexually as I am on my “sexual awakening" my bff says. I have been fortunate lately with a gentleman that has agreed to be a partner I can experiment with things on my sex bucket list! But…